“I am guilty of prejudging people.
It’s a good thing I can change my mind.”
Let’s start with chihuahuas. I have called them rats and swore they were one of the ugliest looking dogs on the planet. Then I met my mother in law’s dog. She likes to knit and while she does, her dog likes to sit on her lap with an afghan over her head. She doesn’t move. She guards her from anything bigger than her, which would be everything. She is completely loyal. She doesn’t like me…even though I consider myself a bit of an animal whisperer, she just doesn’t like me. I think she knows that I have judged her. Now she’s judging me.
On the human side of things (shhh, don’t tell her she’s not human)…
It is our nature to judge. We obviously need to use this handy skill for other aspects of our lives. Heck, if we didn’t, we’d be back floating in the middle of a lake eating ho ho’s (o…kay, maybe just me).
We assess situations. We criticize and analyze. We judge ourselves.
So it is only natural that we would judge others.
I don’t think there is any magical learning experience here. I think when it comes to scrutinizing those we meet, we have to force ourselves to change. It is just a button we need to turn off. We need to tell ourselves DON’T DO IT! Be objective. Ask yourself why would I judge when I do not know. When it comes down to it, we do NOT know.
Now scroll back up. Look at that face and remember……